Tuesday, 21 February 2012

GET HEALTHY TO GET PREGNANT: GET PREGNANT BY GETTING HEALTHY

 
"YOUR CHOICE"
There was an interesting article published in the Herald Sun “Don’t risk your bub with booze” last week talking about alcohol during and after pregnancy. This article really had an impact on my views towards alcohol before and during pregnancy. Click here to follow the link http://www.heraldsun.com.au/news/more-news/dont-risk-your-bub-with-booze/story-fn7x8me2-1226272155189

Working in the field of Fertility, I constantly see woman struggling with the issues of infertility. Gone are the days of falling pregnant like our parents did. When I ask my patients about their Mother’s history relating to fertility, most say,  Mum had little or no difficulty falling pregnant. Every woman that walks through my door has some issue relating to fertility. It’s hard enough trying to conceive naturally and if your doing IVF even harder again.

"In the past 40 years, Australian women and girls have stepped up to join the men and boys at the bar," Dr Stone said. This indicates that women have a real issue when it comes to alcohol.  We live in a culture where we think it’s ok to drink.  Have a stressful day at work then have a drink to relieve the stress. Anna Kokavec did a recent study examining the effects of alcohol on hormones. She describes this situation perfectly. In her transcript she  quoted “That's right, and most of us, if you do have that glass of white wine it's not unusual for somebody to say 'oh, I really needed that,' and 'oh, I feel so much better'. So there is this reinforcing effect. So if we are lowering the level of, say, stress hormone in the brain, well we will be feeling more relaxed. That has implications for things such as addiction, because of course if you are stressed you're being rewarded for actually consuming that alcohol, so you're more likely to reach for a glass of white wine the next time you're stressed”.
 
When it comes to alcohol and fertility, the two do not mix. Alcohol has a huge impact not only on your health but also your child’s. We need to take our health seriously when it comes to falling pregnant. All literature and research conclude the same findings that the adverse affects of alcohol range from; infertility, increased risk for spontaneous abortion to impaired fetal growth and development. Bascically, drinking alcohol puts you and your baby at risk for a miscarriage, pre –term birth and other serious health issues.

There are many reasons why we choose to leave pregnancy till our 30s or 40s. For most of us we are in mid to late 30s when make this decision. The decade of the 30s brings security in our careers and relationships, so having children in your 30s makes financial and practical sense. However, pregnancy at any age comes with its distinct advantages and disadvantages. What we are faced with in our 30s is what I call the “odds of success”. We all know that from 30s onwards our eggs are on the decline and the probabilities of conception are reduced with age.  Particularly, if we have made bad lifestyle choices during our 20’s and 30’s, 

The reality is “the older you get, the more lifestyle choices you make influence your health”. When we make the decision to have a baby we make the choice to live a healthy lifestyle. We want to give our children the best possible start to life and this therefore begins with us. Numero uno.  Wanting to have a healthy baby is a primal urge. So most women are therefore capable of being very well behaved while pregnant. It easy, by cleaning up your act it will actually help you get pregnant

What effects does alcohol have?
  • Alcohol induces a rise in estrogen levels as a consequence of the metabolic breakdown of alcohol in the liver
  • Evidence points to an induces rise in natural or synthetic estrogen levels in woman.
  • Increased rate of testosterone- in women
  • Decreased rate of testosterone in men
  • Decreased rate of estraodial to estrogen
  • Decreased levels of progesterone
  • Alcohol impairs regulation of blood sugar levels

What does this mean?
  • Ovulatory disorder
  • Luteal Phase defects
  • Alters blood sugar levels
  • Impairs reproductive functions
  • Interferes with calcium metabolism and bone structure
  • Inadequate functioning of the ovaries and testes
  • Hormonal deficiencies
  • Sexual dysfunction
  • Infertility


It can be seen that Alcohol has a wide range of effects on the hormone system and can present many real concerns. When it come to our fertility and having babies,  make the conscious decision to stop drinking before and during your pregnancy. I have a no alcohol rule and I don’t negotiate this with my patients. I witness the struggles of woman everyday. If we remove the external factors that can contribute to infertility then we are already half way there to having a healthy baby and conception. My advice is think twice before you sip that glass of wine. Ask yourself do I really need this glass of wine? Instead, go for a walk, have your favourite cup of tea or have some dark chocolate (80%). Look for the healthy alternative. Remember get healthy to get pregnant and get pregnant by getting healthy.


Tuesday, 13 December 2011

THE GIFT BOX



This year has brought many smiles, many tears, heartache, happiness, sadness, love and the list could go one. It's one big box wrapped up in emotions. It's my gift box i give to myself for Christmas each year.

This year for me has been another year of intense growth, not only in work but also my personal life. On reflection, I have learn't more about myself this year than any other previous years. For the first time in my life I finally feel comfortable in my skin and who i am. I also ponder the question will this change? Considering this is the first time i have experienced this and secondly does everything remain the same? Of course not i say casually.  That is the beauty about life and human beings, everything in motion is constantly in a changing state. So, as humans (lucky us) we are constantly evolving, changing thought patterns, changing our belief systems, constantly working on ourselves, our relationships, etc, and the list goes on.  So much work, so much work!  I confess, life is definitely hard at times. It's the hard times that really push our boundaries, it's these moments that we have to pull out the shovel and start digging deep.  Also too, sometimes i think why can't this end? haven't i been through enough, why is this happening again. Ok, universe what is that you are trying to tell me. Haven't I learn't all the lessons???

What I have come to learn,  is that sometimes there are no answers!

Give yourself a gift box for Christmas, we all deserve one! We have all worked so hard, and its nice to have these little reminders to be kind to ourselves! To love ourselves! And sitting with just BEING!

This year has been such a big year for so many people on so many levels. At the end of the day all our stuff is a big as each others. There are no comparisons just moments of sharing and experiencing. I have been so grateful for my clients who have blessed me with the chance of knowing them.  From each other we all keep learning and growing. I feel so lucky to have been able to share the loss of my Mum with my patients. Everyone has been so amazing!

What does 2012 bring us? The invetible question. My opinion is change. I think 2012 will be a great year. This year we have been faced with many challenges on a large scale. It has been a big year! The energy is definitely shifting. Next year will be the last year we ever have a calender year 12/12/12.

I love writing and I haven't been in the head space to write about fertility. So next year lookout. I have lots of wonderful things to share and write about. I can't wait to put thoughts to paper and share with you what i know about fertility, life experiences etc.

Friday, 25 November 2011

BABY PICTURE: Can you find the baby in the picture.

One of my friends posted this in facebook. I think it's beautiful. Can you find the baby in the picture?

Sunday, 2 October 2011

Ten Tips to Kick "Start" your PCOS diet


TEN TIPS TO KICKSTART YOUR PCOS DIET

1. Eat low Glycemic Index (GI) carbohydrates such as vegetables and whole grains. It is very important for women with PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome) to completely avoid refined carbohydrates including sugar, white flour, whole wheat flour and products made from them eg: pasta, breads, desserts, lollies, soft drinks)

2. Keep your blood sugar stable with a daily schedule of meals and snacks every three to five hours that includes some protein and good fats (for example some nuts/nut butter, seeds/seed butter, hardboiled egg, hummus dip). Protein foods take up to 5 hours to digest while carbohydrate foods digest within 30 minutes.

3. Eat at least five servings a day of vegetables including two of leafy greens

4. Have a daily serving of legumes like black beans or lentils.

5. Enjoy grass or pasture fed (organic) meat up to three times a week

6. Eat at least three daily servings of fruits like berries --which have a lower glycemic impact each fruit as part of a meal or with a protein.

7. Limit or eliminate milk and dairy as these can aggravate internal dampness. If you do have dairy have only non- homogenized full fat milk

8. Pay careful attention to portion sizes in order to moderate glucose load and minimize insulin resistance

9. Add one or two Tbsp of cinnamon on cereal each morning to help decrease insulin resistance.

10. Include pre-biotic and pro-biotic foods which promote the growth of beneficial bacteria in the intestinal tract. Pre-biotics are found in whole grains, onions, bananas, garlic, honey, leeks, artichokes and some fortified foods. Pro-biotic foods are found in fermented foods (sauerkraut, live culture yogurt, kim chi, miso).

Tuesday, 20 September 2011

Mum

Sadly my Mum passed away on the 4th September.

Mum, Judith this a celebration of your life and what an amazing woman you were.

Mother Teresa put it like this "in this life we cannot do great things, we can only do small things with great love. This is how Mum lived. She did everything with great love.

THE SPIRIT OF MUM

Mum, she loved and she loved fully
She touched the hearts of all those she met and knew.
She lived in the spirit of her heart
She lived fully
She had a loving relationship with all of life
Her love unconditional
She saw the preciousness in life and love.
The light could be seen in the brillance of the heart spirit sparkling in her eyes.
Her smile was infectious, warming and inviting
Her words of wisdom I will truly miss - yes Mum you were always right
A survivor, a brave fighter, she conquered breast cancer.
She lived through the changes in life with grace, wisdom and compassion
She moved through life from one change to another growing her spiritual being
She touched each moment of this changing life and allowed herself to be there fully
She has taught us all the value in times of great change is the currency of our heart- the ability and understandings of the heart to live and love.
Her love was the source of all energy that created and connected us all here today.
Out of love, she led all of us here today, to create peace around her, to honour the sacred in her life, to bless whatever she encounters and to wish her well.
In the end she knew that to love and let go were the same thing
Her last wish was for us to be a family again. Reunited as one
Mums wish finally granted.
Now she doesn’t have to fight anymore.
Mum was everything to dad, grant and i. Now a piece of our world is missing. Her warmth, her presence will never be forgotten. For mum will always live in our hearts.


The rain has stopped, the clouds have drifted away.
The weather is clear again
If your heart is pure, then all things in your world are pure,
Then the moon and flowers will guide along the way.
As the mystics say in the body of Buddha and the body of Christ
Is even the limited things of the world are filled with inexhaustible sweetness and purity.

Thank-you for making me strong, for giving me the strength to carry on. I will miss you Mum, my best friend, the person in my life who inspires me to a better woman. I love you Judy Cheeks xx